Thursday, June 13, 2013

How We Sold our House in a Week - Part 3 (Comps and their Condition)

If you read the first and second posts from the "how we sold our house in a week" series, you know that I didn't finish.  Let's take a stab at that, shall we?

In the second post, I spoke about pricing.  When deciding how much to ask for your house, you should look at comparable homes  that have recently sold (not houses that are currently for sale).  These comparable homes, or "comps", should be similar in size and condition to yours.

However, if you're not a realtor, you might not be able to see pictures or descriptions of the condition of many sold properties in your area.  Zillow and your county assessor might only provide the size of the house, the date it sold and for how much.

If you don't have enough comps whose condition is already known, you can make an assumption about the comparable houses' condition based on the price per square foot.  Here's how to do it.

Make your list and check it twice

Make a list of properties that sold within about a mile of your house within the last 6 months.  You should have at least 10.  If not, expand your search by time or by distance (but don't cross any major streets that drastically change property value).

In your list, have the following headings:
Address   Bed/Bath  SquareFootage  Date Sold  Amount Sold Price/Sqft

Jot down all the relevant information and then calculate the price per square foot: Amount Sold/Square Footage = Price Per Square Foot.  So a house that sold for $60,000 with 1700 sqft sold for about $35/sqft.

Now look at your list.  The prices per square probably fall into about three categories: really low, middle range and high.  Depending on your neighborhood, how many houses fall into each category can change, but there will still generally always be three categories.

For the example I'm going to use, let's assume a neighborhood where the average house is a 3 or 4 bed, 2 bath with 1800 square feet and sells for about $130,000,  and the prices per square foot range from $50-80/ft.  Like this one I found on Zillow:



Know thyself

The three sets of numbers correspond to one of these three categories:
1) Cheap - Fixer Upper
2) Average - Decent and Clean
3) High-Priced - Remodeled and Wow

Cheap Houses: The houses with a low price per square foot are the cheap fixer uppers.  In our example neighborhood these would be $50-60/ft.   They're cheap because they usually needs tons of work, and were a foreclosure or an investor bought it to flip or rent.  These houses probably need a full remodel (we're talking orange countertops and dark brown paneling) and might even have structural or mechanical problems (like foundation problems, or needs a new roof or A/C).

Average Houses: These houses are decent and neat on the inside, with the condition ranging from some updates to a lot of modern updates.  They're clean, but not completely updated.  It might need new tile in the bathrooms, or still have that old wood paneling in a living room, but in general, you do feel as though this place has been maintained, has some modern touches and is move-in ready.  The majority of houses in your neighborhood will be like this.

High-Priced Houses: This is the house whose price shocks you as much as the amazing remodeled condition.  In our example, it's priced at $80/ft. There will only be a few of these.  It was probably completely remodeled (likely by the investor who bought it for $60,000 six months ago).  It could also be a homeowner whose upgrades were "too nice" for the neighborhood but wants to get his money back, or maybe even a homeowner who arbitrarily decides his house is worth it, and some poor buyer paid too much.

Hopefully not all of your comps are lacking a description or pics.  Using the price per square foot method to guess condition is obviously not as reliable as seeing pictures and reading realtors' descriptions.  

But go ahead and take a look at sold comps that you DO have pics and descriptions for, and already know the condition: does its price/sqft line up with the ranges you see in your list?   It almost always does.  Pretty nifty.

Next up: Make it look stunning.

Monday, June 10, 2013

Devil's Snare

I went to church by myself yesterday.  The kids have had chicken pox for over a week, and Aaron and I talked about it and decided my sanity was more at stake than his, so off I went.  I was numb from the week and felt myself slowly thawing as I drove the 25 minutes it takes to get there.

I came to think about Devil's Snare.  I tend to relate to simple yet meaningful metaphors, and my emotional journey fits neatly into this one.

A few days before the kids came down with chicken pox, we went down to Dallas to visit our counselor.  It'd been six months since I had seen this man who has come to be a spiritual father to me.

I confessed how much hatred I have been feeling toward God while I have also strangely come to believe in the goodness of God and in His real love for me.  I felt confused that I would resent God for my past sufferings, even though I no longer see Him as a God who punishes or who is far off.

There's an...unsticking taking place in me as I wrestle with these honest but difficult feelings.  The more honest I am, the more I feel as though I am facing a choice.  And it's a choice I really don't want to make.  I'm still trying to figure out how to articulate what the choice is, because it mostly exists in my mind as images, but it's the choice to put my guard down and choose to love, even though I feel there is not enough love or Life in me to give away.

Since I feel that I have such a limited amount of Life in me, I often demand that others take care of me.  I resent my dear children for their need of me.  I cringe when they touch me, because I'm afraid they will take all of me and nothing will be left.

My counselor listened, as he always does; but this time he also gave advice and earnestly encouraged me - which has not really happened until now.  He told me that "trusting God looks like holding your children".  I knew what he meant: I could either brace myself when they touch and give as little as I have to when they need me; or I could soften to them, relax my arms around them, and give them what I have.

Of course, two days later they came down with chicken pox and I was faced with a week alone with them and their innocent neediness.  I'm trying to choose to sit with them and love them.  But it's painful.  I cry when I give myself, since I'm still scared it's not true that I will be okay.

And then I thought of Devil's Snare.  When you become entrapped in this plant, if you struggle it only tightens its grip.  It will get tighter and tighter until it squeezes you to death.  You only survive if you can manage to stop fighting and relax.  Then it releases you.

So there's the paradox of Devil's Snare, and I believe, of love as well.   In stories and wise sayings, they say the truth about love is that you find love when you are willing to give it away.  That if you choose to feel death, you will experience Life.

The beautiful part of J.K. Rowling's imagery here is that apparently, when the plant releases its victims, it only does so because it believes them to be dead.  It believes it is victorious.  Death always thinks it has you when you choose to surrender to it; but the person who chooses death becomes the victor.

I think that is the Gospel, and it's very difficult for me to believe.  But I am trying.